I Feel So Free: Reinvention, Desire & Vacation Energy EP 755

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Teddy Alexis are joined with a brand new Sex Talk to discuss the freedom many gay men feel when they travel and how sexy they feel on a holiday. Personal stories from the hosts travel escapades are shared as well as their favorite spots to explore their sexuality.

There’s a new study saying gay men feel hotter on vacation… and honestly… we didn’t need science to tell us that. But now we’ve got data—and it’s kind of fascinating why.

• And with Madonna’s ‘I Feel So Free’—this idea of shedding identity, becoming someone new—it kind of lines up perfectly with this idea of vacation energy…

• Being in a new place = you’re “new” on the grid

• You’re not trapped in your home city’s hierarchy or typecasting

• Vacation hookups vs. real-life dating - the hosts discuss

• Have you ever stayed somewhere long enough to watch the magic fade? The hosts discuss...

• Hot Topic: A Minnesota teacher is fired and nomination for Best Teacher taken away when picture resurface of a leather past...

• Hot Topic: Gay Dad's in Weho are fooled into doing an interview to a homophobic host..find how it goes down...

• Hot Topic: Who stole Madonna's vintage outfit???

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LINKS:

Thirst T rap - https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-stars-gabe-packing-reece-scott-tayte-hanson-seth-cain-nick-masc/

Hot, Healing… and a Little Messy EP 753 Listen/Watch

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with a brand new Sex Talk - Last episode we talked about not being okay… Today let’s talk about being not okay… but still wanting to get laid. Because let’s be honest… healing doesn’t cancel horny. Sometimes your therapist says journal… and your body says Grindr. Plus we have all your Hot Topics and Sex Advice for a listener.

Have you ever been emotionally off… but still physically on

• Do you lean into sex when you're off… or avoid it?

• The hosts discus types of sex we have: Validation Sex, Escape Sex, Connection Sex and Chaos Sex...

• Dating while healing... can you date while you're working on yourself or healing?

• Fun Lightening Rod the hosts play about sex while working on yourself

• Hot Topic: Boomer Banks says that scrotox reshaped his balls for the good after an early health issue...Do bigger balls matter?

• Hot Topic: Dave Chappelle claims his anti-Trans jokes are not the same as the GOP's....

• Hot Topic: UK bans Step Daddy type of adult content...

• Hot Topic: Noah's Arc Darryl Stephens on Heated Rivalry success...does he get it right?

• Advice: Listener wants to know if using butt plugs are for stretch therapy or can they also be stimulating for pleasure...

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Show Notes:

Boomer Banks talks about his health history and Scrotox for his balls - https://www.them.us/story/my-body-stopped-producing-testosterone-so-i-injected-filler-into-my-balls

Noah’s Arc Darryl Stephen on ‘Heated Rivalry’ - https://www.queerty.com/noahs-arc-star-darryl-stephens-on-heated-rivalrys-success-that-show-couldnt-have-happened-with-2-men-of-color-20260415/

Evolving Desire: The Sex We Actually Want Now EP 751

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition, Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back in front of a live virtual audience. On this episode we have a brand new Sex Talk: We talk a lot about reinventing ourselves…

but nobody really talks about what that means in bed. Because the truth is… the sex we had at 25?

It doesn’t always translate at 45… or 55. Not because it’s worse— but because we’re different.

Our bodies respond differently… our needs are deeper… and honestly… our tolerance for bullshit is way lower.

So the question is— are we evolving sexually with ourselves… or are we still chasing a version of sex that doesn’t even fit us anymore?

Plus we're previewing Kodi Maurice's brand new music video for "Proof of Love" which you can see the preview on our Youtube channel: youtube.com/tagspodcast EP 751

The hosts share how their sex lives have changed or evolved over time using a backdrop of actor Rupert Everett who started having sex in his teens in the 1970's

• The hosts share their early years of what sex looked like post AIDS epidemic

• The hosts share what positions they liked when they were younger vs what they enjoy today

• The hosts share what's important and to them in sex today and what actually gets better with age..

• Let's talk desire - what turns us on now!

• Quick Fire with the hosts like a sexual myth that you let go of...

• Music Video Preview - we preview Kodi Maurice's brand new music video for "Proof of Love"

• Hot Topic: A sexpert is calling out all toxic tops!

• Hot Topic: Minneapolis City Council proposes bringing back bathhouses amid their closure during the AIDS crisis in 1988...

• Hot Topic: Health Update: What's the side effect of Doxypep you should know about before your Summer travel? Plus, Shigella alert in the UK - what signs and precautions can you take?

• Hot Topic: The potential olympians who are using OF to raise money to live and train...

• Advice: Are we addicted to men or the attention of the moment that gives us a rush...?

• Thirst Trap: Pick your favorite NSFW shot of the week!

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LINKS:

Sexpert calls our ‘toxic tops’ https://www.queerty.com/this-sexpert-is-calling-out-toxic-tops-a-dark-room-double-standard-20260408/

Minneapolis considers bringing back bathhouses - https://www.cbsnews.com/minnesota/news/minneapolis-adult-sex-venues-bathhouses-license-proposal/

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-loc-rios-christian-wilde-dex-devall-erick-ramirez/

The Daddy Divide: Power, Desire and Age Dynamics in Gay Dating EP 747

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with Part 2 of our Sex Talk. Last episode we asked if age matters. This episode… we’re asking why it turns us on… and when it becomes a problem. But we didn’t fully talk about something we all know is there…

Power.

Because in gay dating, age isn’t just a number—it’s an identity.

‘Daddy.’

‘Boy.’

‘Twink.’

‘Sir.’

These aren’t just labels… they come with expectations. Dynamics. Fantasies.

And sometimes… imbalance.

So tonight we’re asking: Are we attracted to people… or to what they represent? When does an age gap feel sexy… and when does it feel complicated? And are we actually choosing connection—or playing out roles we’ve learned?

Listen to EP 747: linktr.ee/tagspodcastlinks

New douche that is being tested: https://www.queerty.com/buzz-builds-around-unexpected-douching-hack-hungry-bottoms-are-all-in-20260325/

How to tell what size a guy is really packing… https://www.queerty.com/thats-8-inches-or-more-sweetie-this-gay-tiktokers-guide-to-catching-print-is-going-viral-20260323/?utm_source=intomore&utm_medium=directlink&utm_campaign=directlink&utm_content=%E2%80%9CThat%E2%80%99s+8+inches+or+more%2C+sweetie%E2%80%9D%3A+This+gay+Tiktoker%E2%80%99s+guide+to+catching+print+is+going+viral

5 New Gay Bars are set to open in the US! https://www.gaycities.com/articles/104261/five-fabulous-new-queer-bars-opening-in-the-us-this-spring-and-summer/?utm_source=queerty&utm_medium=directlink&utm_campaign=directlink&utm_content=Five+fabulous+new+queer+bars+opening+in+the+US+this+spring+and+summer

Open Relationship Expert and Host of 'Getting Close' Aidan Wharton EP 745

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with Special Guest Aidan Wharton who is a open relationship expert and host of the podcast 'Getting Close'. He runs a successful Substack 'Gay Buffet' and is a co-host in speed dating in NYC.

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• Aidan Wharton's Substack: https://gaybuffet.substack.com/

• Aidan Wharton's Podcast: Getting Close

• We welcome Aidan Wharton to the show to discuss friendship, why it's harder to find true friendships that show up for us and find real connections

• The hosts and Aidan discuss nudes, 'close friends' on Instagram, managing them and how Aidan's nudes were stolen and the trauma it caused.

• We talk about the currency that gay men participate in with our nude photos...

• The hosts ask Aidan about his Substack "Gay Buffet" a once-weekly newsletter that will help you make sense of this mess of a world through a lens that is unapologetically Queer, thoughtful, and optimistic.

• Gay Gourmet is the elevated cousin of Gay Buffet, with exclusive articles focused on healthy relationships and effective communication.

• Aidan is married and talks about his open relationship, his approach to open relationships and how to deal with shame.

• Aidan is the host of speed dating in New York. He talks about the importance of meeting IRL

• Hot Topic: Most tops don't douche...surprising or not?

• Hot Topic: Jools Lebron "very demure, very mindful' shares struggle with sobriety and fame...

• Hot Topic: Gays at the oscars!

• Advice: Older gay man is still attracted to twinks...

• Advice: Can you DM a guy you haven't seen in awhile...?

• Advice: Fit vs. Muscular...

• Thirst Trap: Who took the hottest shot of the week?

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Links:

Gay Buffet: https://gaybuffet.substack.com/

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-stars-ryan-raw-leo-louis-jack-hunter-forest-cliff/

EP 743 TAGSPODCAST Listen/Watch/Show Notes

On a new TAGSPODCAST aka Talk About Gay Sex podcast Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with a brand new Sex Talk: Part 3 - If Part 1 talk about how easy sex is for gay men and Part 2 asked What has sexual abundance done to us? then today Part 3 How do we build real love and connection in a culture of infinite options? Maybe the real challenge of modern gay dating isn’t finding someone who wants us… it’s choosing someone when there are always more options.

The more options people have, the harder it becomes to choose. The hosts share their personal stories...

• What makes someone stay emotionally?

• What actually creates lasting connection?

• We discuss how gay men are redefining what relationships look like often without children and with monogamy and open relationships...

• We talk alignment in a relationship and even when you find a partner you need to continually align...

• What makes relationship material?? The hosts discuss

• Hot Topic: Gay men share the moment they realized their partner was 'the one'

• Hot Topic: "Heated Rivalry" cast have a message to 'toxic fandom'...

• Hot Topic: New Study talks about the size of penises and which states have the largest

• Hot Topic: George Michael new concert film and album coming out soon!

• Advice: Saw a colleague at an orgy and now it's potentially awkward...

• Advice: My BF is giving hints that he wants to explore BDSM but not sure I want that...

• Thirst Trap: Who took the hottest shot of the week?!

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New Study by Dr. Goldstein of Bespoke Surgical talks penis length and states with the larges: https://www.queerty.com/new-study-reveals-the-us-states-with-the-biggest-dcks-20260310/

Robbie G. K. thirst trap: https://www.out.com/celebs/robbie-g-k-behind-the-blinds#rebelltitem1

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-eric-rec-marcus-mcneill-big-dick-fig-jkab-ethan-dale-texas-twink/

Mama Tits talks Prostate Cancer Journey plus the State of PV! EP 741

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with their Special Guest Mama Tits! Mama Tits aka Brian is back to discuss his new show in PV "Side Effects May Vary", his journey of stage 4 Prostate Cancer, meeting the the love of his life who vowed to stay with Brian after hearing of his diagnosis plus challenging him to fight, Brian's messaging to anyone with a prostate and we talk the state of Puerto Vallarta now.

Mama Tits aka Brian returns to the podcast to discuss his stage 4 Prostate Cancer journey including being diagnosed just last year with no symptoms

• Meeting the love of his life last July and how they kept the relationship under the radar which was new for Brian...

• How Brian's man stuck with him even after the stage 4 diagnosis plus asked Brian to fight

• Getting back on stage as Mama Tits and how audiences have responded

• What treatment has looked like with stage 4 Prostate cancer

• Mama Tit's message to anyone who has a prostate

• Mama Tit's talks about the state of Puerto Vallarta and why we all need to visit PV now because it's back and safer than ever and the economy in PV really needs your support now!

• Mama Tit's talks her new show "Side Effects May Vary" now through the end of May

• Hot Topics: Alan Cumming makes a statement amid the controversy of the BAFTA's

• Hot Topic: If you wanted to rent the cottage in 'Heated Rivalry' you'll have to wait until 2028...

• Hot Topic: New York City is losing a gay restaurant institution Elmo after 25 years!

• Advice: Dating a guy for 5 months but he is slow to return messages but is always on Sniffies...

• Thirst Trap: Out of 16 adult performers who took the hottest pic of the week

Visit: themamatits.com

Follow Mama Tits on IG: @themamatits

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LINKS:

LISTEN TO EP 741 HERE: linktr.ee/tagspodcastlinks

VISIT - TheMamaTits.com

Elmo is closing in NY after 25 years! https://www.gaycities.com/articles/103974/new-york-city-is-losing-elmo-one-of-chelseas-last-great-gay-restaurants/?utm_source=queerty&utm_medium=directlink&utm_campaign=directlink&utm_content=New+York+City+is+losing+Elmo%2C+one+of+Chelsea%E2%80%99s+last+great+gay+restaurants

Thirst Trap - Who took the hottest NSFW shot out of these 16 adult performers? https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-dio-ferrero-big-rod-hung-jake-max-poke-ezra-scott/

Turn On the Faucet? Is Sex Really That Easy for Gay Men? EP 739

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with an all new Sex Talk - Is sex really that easy for gay men and do we take it for granted? Plus we have all your Hot Topics, Sex & Relationship Advice and a new Thirst Trap! Out of 13 which model took the best NSFW shot this week? You vote!

“Being gay is like turning on the sink and water just comes out.” According to a a popular influencer is that Sex is easily obtainable...is it? We discuss...

• Or is that something only some gay men experience?

• And if it is easy… why does love feel so much harder?

• The hosts discuss when they felt like sex was more accessible in gay spaces...

• Is sex built into our gay community for some of us but then is affection and love that much harder to find without any examples or tools?

• Do body image, age, race and proximity all affect how gay men obtain sex on the apps?

• Is sex easier to get in certain spaces...

• Hot Topic: Disability activist says BBC cut Homophobic slur but kept a racist one in...

• Hot Topic: Can PrEP among gay Black men be improved when the stats show this community has the highest HIV new infections?

• Hot Topic: Married influencers Toby and Mikey Perryman-Payne recount be drugged at a gay bar in LA back in 2024 and how it affected them...

• Hot Topic: Gay Days in Orlando is back!

• Hot Topic: Gay True Crime Must See TV - "Murder in Glitterball City".

• Advice: Is it important to date multiple people to decide if the one you are currently dating is the one?

• Advice: Glory Hole etiquette - is there any etiquette??

• Thirst Trap: Which of these 13 models took the best pic of the week?

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LINKS:

Married Influencers drugged in LA - https://www.thepinknews.com/2026/02/25/gay-influencer-couple-drugged-and-assaulted-as-they-share-horror-story/

Gay Days is back in Orlando - https://instinctmagazine.com/gaydays-2026-back/

“Murder in Glitterball City” - Must See TV - https://instinctmagazine.com/murder-sex-scandal-true-crime/

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-deepdick10x7-raphel-playground-dom-king-ty-santana/

Cold Nights, Hot Bodies: Gay Love in February EP 735

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with an all new Sex Talk, Hot Topics, Advice and Thirst Trap. Valentine’s Day, Single’s Awareness Day & Winter Loneliness: Love, Lust, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves. How gay men experience Valentine’s Day — partnered, single, situationship-ed, open, healing, heartbroken — especially during cold winter months when everything feels amplified.

LINKS:

Pride Flag removed from Stonewall: https://www.axios.com/2026/02/10/stonewall-pride-flag-removed-national-park-service

Drug Trafficking on Gay Cruise and the arrests that were made: https://str8upgayporn.com/sean-cody-model-eddie-burke-arrested-for-drug-trafficking-on-gay-royal-caribbean-cruise-faces-more-than-15-years-in-prison/

Island House in Key West celebrates 50 Years! https://instinctmagazine.com/island-house-turns-50-gay-resort/

Thirst Trap - Who took the best NSFW shot of the week? https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-ian-croft-gymbo-aiden-ward-jack-emhoff/

EP 733 - Listen/Watch/Links

LINKS:

Edge on Grindr

Thirst Trap - Vote:

Aging Gay: What Actually Matters Now (Health, Sex, Connection and Confidence EP 72

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with an all new Sex Talk discussion on Gays and Aging in celebration of Host Steve V's birthday week! A reflective but sexy, honest conversation about what aging as a gay man really means—beyond fear, stereotypes, or invisibility—and how growing older can actually bring clarity, confidence, and better sex.

 Aging as a privilege in the LGBTQ+ community

•  The fact that many of us didn’t always imagine ourselves getting older

• Letting go of youth obsessed culture...

• Shifting from validation to self-assurance

• Does sex change as we age?

• Taking care of our gay health as we age...our sexuality makes our gay health unique

• Problems or issues that can arise as we age

• Aging as becoming more your as opposed to less you...

• Hot Topic: The Maryland woman who attacked a gay man in a grocery store has been arrested!

• Hot Topic: Matt Rogers says he'll do better amid his attacks on Rep. Jasmine Crockett....

• Hot Topic: Joel Kim Booster ties the knot!

• Hot Topic: Wanda Sykes accepts the award for Ricky Gervais and thanks the Trans Community for him!

• Advice: Pair of Tops struggling with sex...

• Advice: Using sex as a means to an end...

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Connection After the Cum: Why Gay Men Stay, Ghost, or Pull Away After Sex EP 720

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with an all new Sex Talk. Tonight we’re going deeper into what happens after sex. Why do some men cuddle… and others sprint for their pants like they’re in a triathlon? Plus we're giving you all your Hot LGBTQ topics, sex and relationship advice and more...

The Post-Sex Reality Check - what happens? Cuddling & pillow talk?? Immediate showering??? Ghosting???? Or Avoidance of intimacy?????

• We break down the new hot show "Heated Rivalry" and how the characters reflect a lot of our community when it comes to sex and intimacy...

• Can casual sex built real intimacy??

• The hosts were talking about 2026 projections for sex and intimacy and now we're reading Todrick Hall's wish list for a new man....realistic or GayDD?

• New study suggests there is still a lot of HIV phobia within the community plus a listener shares this is correct...

• Hot Topic: Tristen Shukraft's new venture will take over the iconic Crown & Anchor in Ptown

• Hot Topic: Prince Charming star Chad Spodick takes his own life...

• Hot Topic: P*rnhub sees rise in Trans and Femboy boy content...

• Advice: Masc attracted to Fem Boy...

• Thirst Trap: It's time to pick the Thirst King...

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Tristan Shukraft will now take over the Crown & Anchor in Ptown: https://www.gaycities.com/articles/102621/the-abbey-owner-tristan-schukraft-just-bought-a-prestigious-and-much-loved-provincetown-hotel/?utm_source=queerty&utm_medium=directlink&utm_campaign=directlink&utm_content=Abbey+owner+Tristan+Schukraft+just+bought+a+prestigious+%26amp%3B+much-loved+Provincetown+hotel

Finding Prince Charming Chad Spodick took his own life.. https://www.gaycities.com/articles/102621/the-abbey-owner-tristan-schukraft-just-bought-a-prestigious-and-much-loved-provincetown-hotel/?utm_source=queerty&utm_medium=directlink&utm_campaign=directlink&utm_content=Abbey+owner+Tristan+Schukraft+just+bought+a+prestigious+%26amp%3B+much-loved+Provincetown+hotel

Thirst Trap King - Vote: https://str8upgayporn.com/vote-who-is-2025s-thirst-trap-king/

Post-Nut Clarity — Is It Real? Why It Happens for some EP 718

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with all new hot Sex Talk on PNC...Post Nut Clarity. Today we’re diving into a term everyone’s heard — Post-Nut Clarity. Is it real? Does everyone feel it? And why do some people feel refreshed, while others feel like they made every wrong decision in the book? We also want to layer in: does connected, conscious sex — even tantra — change that feeling? Can you avoid it entirely? Plus we're talking new sex position Flatiron...

Post Nut Clarity: “It’s that moment right after orgasm where suddenly you’re like: ‘Why did I text him?’ ‘Why am I here?’ ‘Do I even like this person?’”

• The hosts share personal stories on when they experienced PNC...

• Some people feel zen. Others feel guilt. Others feel absolutely nothing.

• Casual hookup vs partner you’re connected to - does it make a difference with PNC?

• When there’s connection, communication, safety — the ‘clarity’ isn’t a crash. It’s more of a grounded moment.

• When sex is not just release but connection, breath, energy… does the ‘post-nut’ crash even happen? How queer men specifically can benefit from slowing down / intention-setting.

• So how can people shift their sexual experience to avoid that crashy, regretful, disconnected feeling?

• Connect & Confidence new app by Host Steve V gives daily and weekly tools that are fun to help you find meaningful connections with confidence in dating and finding love. Go to Studio.com/stevev/connect

• Hot Topic: Have you tried the Flatiron sex positon?

• Hot Topic: What are non-sexual things you like in a guy? We discuss...

• Hot Topic: Whitexican content creator paints himself green, shows off ass and sings from Wicked...

• Hot Topic: "Heated Rivalry" show runner shuts down any mention of the actor's sexuality and more...

• Advice: When do you expect to be introduced to your beau's family?

• The hosts share their music listening for 2025 based on the platform stats...what were you listening too?

• Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW shot this week?

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LINKS:

What is the Flatiron position in bed? https://instinctmagazine.com/sex/positions/flatiron/

Whitexican paints body green naked and sings Wicked song and shows off ass: https://str8upgayporn.com/adult-content-creator-whitexican-goes-viral-by-showing-off-pink-hole-and-green-bubble-butt-while-singing-song-from-emwicked-em/

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-braxton-cruz-malik-delgaty-paul-codi/

Confident Dating: How to Show Up as the Real You EP 715

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with an all new discussion on how we show up on our dates as our real selves or do we put up a facade to be who we think people want to meet?

We break down why queer dating feels so intimidating, how to stop shrinking yourself or over-performing on dates, and what it really means to “show up as the real you.” We also talk about what confidence is not, the moments we’ve lied to ourselves to be chosen, and how dating confidence evolves with age and experience.

This episode includes tools, stories, very honest confessions, and a gentle reminder:

You’re not auditioning — you’re connecting.

The hosts share personal stories of how they showed up for past dates when they were younger and not as confident as they are now...

• Confidence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being real, relaxed, and present

• The misconception that confidence = being bold, loud, flirty, or dominant

• Internalized fear of rejection and its impact on confidence

• How dating confidence is really about clarity, boundaries, and comfort

• Showing up as ourselves not the version we think they want...

• Confident behaviors that attract the right guy...

• Tips that work on a date like flirting, listening and sharing...

• Hot Topic: 3rd lawsuit filed against Ursaline High School in Ohio involving Football players harassing a gay student...

• Hot Topic: Adult MAGA performer Cory Mendelsohn is arrested for assaulting husband and boyfriend...

• Hot Topic: What does a Top actually smell like and what fragrance if any do Tops where...?

• Hot Topic: Colman Domingo feels sexier than ever at 55...we discuss

• Advice: Only 28% of Straight Men feel comfortable seeing two men kiss....

• Advice: A guy loved bombed another for 5 dates and now has ghosted him out of the blue...

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Links:

3rd Federal Lawsuit against Ohio High School relating to homophobic attacks.. https://www.wkyc.com/article/news/education/ursuline-high-school-third-lawsuit-football-players-assaulted-harassed-gay-student-youngstown-subodh-chandra/95-13ec363b-f0c2-4f6a-9101-12decc3097a6

NSFW performer Corey Mendelsohn arrested for assaulting husband and boyfriend: https://str8upgayporn.com/white-supremacist-gay-porn-star-cory-mendelsohn-arrested-for-domestic-battery-after-assaulting-maga-husband-jared-mitchell-and-19-year-old-boyfriend/

Reclaiming Sacred Slut Energy EP 713

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with a brand new Sex Talk. Today we're talking about reclaiming our slut energy, slut shaming and how you can be an ethical slut as a gay man.

Where did the term slut come from and how has it been used for our gay community throughout our history? We discuss our varied history with sex, sexual freedom, HIV epidemic and how PrEP and Doxypep have changed the game on how we view sex and practice sex today.

• Reframing: the difference between validation-seeking sex and expansive, connected sex.

• Think back to a time you felt free after sex — not guilty, not anxious, but free. What was different about that experience? We discuss and share...

• Being a slut with intention — turning desire into a mindfulness practice

• Different types of Sluts: Tender, Curious, Sacred, Healing

• Hot Topic: Tish Hymann confronts a CA Senator as a Lesbian who says 'men' not Trans Women are using the bathroom and putting women in harms way...

• Hot Topic: Cheyenne Jackson says gay men are on the spectrum when it comes to 'gay voice'...

• Hot Topic: The tale of the Sniffies 'Bush' appreciator...we discuss deeper kinks...

• Advice: If you could tell your 30 year old self something what woudl it be?

• Advice: So you wanna meet up with a 'Dom' guy...what you should know and what to ask....

• Thirst Trap: Which NSFW photo gets our pick and why...

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LINKS:

The Tale of Sniffies ‘Bush’ appreciator: https://www.queerty.com/the-tale-of-the-sniffies-bush-appreciator-has-the-gays-in-a-tailspin-20251110/

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-devin-holt-rocky-unleashed-zam-leo-louis/

Sex and the (Other) City: L.A. vs N.Y. Gay Vibes EP 71

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Stevie V and Co-host Teddy Alexis are back to talk Sex Talk and it's all about East Coast vs West Coast gays...specifically we're breaking down where the hosts reside and sharing insights into possible differences of LA vs NY gays. Do we find love differently, date differently and at what pace do we find men? We're breaking it all down and asking the question: Are you more of an NY Gay or an LA Gay or neither?

Master Joshua talks about his upcoming retreat in Easton Mountain "Reclaiming the Divine Masculine" Nov. 13 - Nov. 16 Visit: Reclaiming the Divine Masculine

• L.A.: Body culture, shirtless hikes, influencer thirst traps, the “branding” of gay identity

• N.Y.: Edge, wit, creative energy, attitude, and fast-paced flirtation.

• Debate which city wins when it comes to chemistry versus aesthetics.

• What's a typical date look like in both cities? The hosts share their personal stories on what they like to do on a date and what doesn't work...

• Both are big cities so does that make it easier or harder to find a man?

• What does a hookup look like in both LA vs. NY?

• The hosts play a fun quick fire on who wins...NY Gays vs LA Gays...

• Hot Topic: New Study finds straight guys and gay guys view cheating very differently...

• Hot Topic: Gold Gym in Weho is the latest debate about who can use what bathroom when singer Tish Hyman throws a fit claiming 'men' are in the women's bathroom...

• Hot Topic: Jonathan Bailey is the first gay celebrity to be named People Magazine's Sexiest Man Alive..

• We're reviewing two new series: "Boots" and "All's Fair"....

• Thirst Trap: Who took the sexiest NSFW photo of the week and why...?

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LINKS:

Master Joshua’s ‘Reclaiming Your Divine Masculinity” Nov. 13 - Nov. 16 in Easton Mountains: https://www.eastonmountain.org/events/mhr-25

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-jaxx-cody-josh-moore-angel-elias-dom-king/

When hookups go weird: the horror stories nobody warns you about EP 706

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with new Sex Talk. On this episode we're discussing hookups that seem to start “normal” but spiral into unexpected, even creepy, territory. One is about Grindr catfishing, the other about a double hookup with roommates in bunk beds — chaos, confusion, and strange dynamics. We dig into the weird, risky, and hilarious side of modern gay hookup culture.

Hosts breakdown a Tik Toker that talks about the tale of two roommates and two bunk beds which prompts the hosts to tell their juicy stories of two roommates...

• Hosts breakdown another story of Catfishing and a threesome where only one shows up....

• Living situations and roommate dynamics are discussed

• Looking for red flags when hooking up...

• Ethics, consent and secrecy are discussed...

• Can you feel the RU5H??? The new sex progressive travel company is launching, RU5H is here to explore all of your sexual fantasies with other gay men

•  Hot Topic: Oct. 10 will be National PrEP Day started by Mistr to educate, offer PrEP for all with many Queer celebrities spreading the message...

• Hot Topic: The 250 Best Songs of the 21st Century by Rolling Stone....

• Hot Topic: Henry Cavill life size doll??

• Hot Topic: Is Gen Z shaming age stating that 30 is too old for the apps??

• Advice: Should you divulge to your family that your new beau is Trans?

• Advice: Not Ready for a threesome...

• Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW pic of the week?

Hosts breakdown a Tik Toker that talks about the tale of two roommates and two bunk beds which prompts the hosts to tell their juicy stories of two roommates... Hosts breakdown another story of Catfishing and a threesome where only one shows up.... Living situations and roommate dynamics are discussed Looking for red flags when hooking up... Ethics, consent and secrecy are discussed... Can you feel the RU5H??? The new sex progressive travel company is launching, RU5H is here to explore all of your sexual fantasies with other gay men •  Hot Topic: Oct. 10 will be National PrEP Day started by Mistr to educate, offer PrEP for all with many Queer celebrities spreading the message... Hot Topic: The 250 Best Songs of the 21st Century by Rolling Stone.... Hot Topic: Henry Cavill life size doll?? Hot Topic: Is Gen Z shaming age stating that 30 is too old for the apps?? Advice: Should you divulge to your family that your new beau is Trans? Advice: Not Ready for a threesome... Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW pic of the week?

LINKS:

Check out new Sex Progressive new Travel: www.ru5h.com https://www.out.com/events/ru5h-gay-fetish-cruise

250 Greatest Songs of the 21st Century: https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-lists/best-songs-of-the-21st-century-1235410452/lil-uzi-vert-xo-tour-llif3-3-1235433350/

Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-angel-rivera-nick-masc-dominic-santos-daniel-justice/

https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/blog/2025/10/9/when-hookups-go-weird-the-horror-stories-nobody-warns-you-about-ep-706

Fantasy vs. Reality: Kinks, Content & Connection EP 700 - Listen/Watch

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition, Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with a follow up on Sex Talk from EP 699 and Sex Magic. This time the hosts talk about adult content consumption and the ability to merge Sex Magic with Sexual Freedom. They also talk about their kinks that have shown up over the years and the tale of a threesome where everybody is not on the same page...

A continuation from EP 699 on Sex Magic asking the question is our adult content in check and are we giving away sex...with the ability to implement Sex Magic with Sexual Freedom

• A recent article asked gay men what are their kinks...we discuss and share our surprising kinks that have evolved over the years

• The tale of the threesome where one member in the couple wasn't pitching his tent and stepped away from the group...should couples get more control of what works for them in a threesome or can this just be par for the course...

• Hot Topic: A Michigan Republican tries to introduce a law that would ban all adult content...

• Hot Topic: A gay Ohio man wins a case to put 'gay' on his license plate...

• Hot Topic: Lil Nas X misses his court appearance due to being treated out of state..

• Hot Topic: Friends of Billy Porter ask us for prayers for the icon due to the artist suffering from Sepsis...

• Hot Topic: HIV makes a mark at NY Fashion Week but you can catch the coverage on Nov. 30 on Hulu

• Hot Topic: Eggplant and Peach statues were asked to be taken down...seriously?

• Hot Topic: Bold and the Beautiful debut a kiss between the new gay characters...a review!

• Hot Topic: Kory Kink from Drag Race conjures up Michael Jackson for the Emmy's...but was it a miss?

• Advice: How soon after dating should you have the discussion on exclusivity?

• Advice: A man is getting back into the apps and is going to have a busy night...when should he take doxypep?

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LINKS:

HIV and NY Fashion Week: https://www.queerty.com/heres-how-hiv-fiercely-took-over-the-runway-at-new-york-fashion-week-20250916/

Eggplant and Peach Statues causing controversy: https://www.queerty.com/eggplant-peach-statues-erected-on-main-street-spark-major-outcry-in-small-east-coast-town-20250916/

Kory King as Michael Jackson..? https://www.out.com/gay-tv-shows/kori-king-emmys-michael-jackson#rebelltitem1

Confidence on the Apps, Creativity in the Bedroom EP 698

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition, Host Stevie V and Co-host Teddy Alexis are back to tackle to discussions on Sex Talk. We discuss how to be that sexual hero for your partner when it doesn't come naturally plus we're talking the existence of shame that may or may not exist on the apps to find love and sex.

Sex Talk #1: How to be that sexual super hero that he wants out of you when it doesn't come naturally. We give tips on trying new behaviors, being more vocal and practicing before you hit the bedroom. Plus we're advocating for conversation - it's a two way street!

• Sex Talk #2: We start the conversation on the potential shame of using dating apps to finding confidence to obtaining a partner for a relationship and sex.

• Hot Topc: One gay influencer couple explains why they think it's important to live in a small town with their children...we give our thoughts...

• Hot Topic: Markin Wolf is on OF and is a positive role model on HIV status for his fans...

• Hot Topic: Sabrina Carpenter and Ricky Martin turn of the heat for the VMA's and show their love for the community!

• Hot Topic: What's going on with "Cabaret" on Broadway amid Billy Porter leaving the show due to a sickness...

• Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW photo of the week and why...

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Thirst Trap: https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-stars-lane-rogers-mountain-man-oliver-carter-rhyheim/

Successful Gang Bangs and Body Dysmorphia in All of Us EP 695

On a new TAGS LIVE Talk About Gay Sex the live edition, Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back to discuss topics on hosting a 'Successful Gang Bang' plus we are talking about 'Body Dysmorphia' that we all experience on some level. Hot LGBTQ Topics round out the show.

Top tips on hosting a successful Gang Bang from a bottoms perspective and we break down the nuts and bolts of a healthy fun party for all

• Inspired by the new documentary, "Body Electric" the hosts discuss 'Body Dysmorphia' and how it affects our community and how we all suffer from it on various levels.

• Take our poll this week on our topics on gay sexuality. Head over to Patreon.com/tagspodcast

• Hot Topic: Nelly Furtado headlines Manchester Pride and has a message for the haters on body shaming...

• Hot Topic: Follow up to Lil Nas X and what he's telling his fans post arrest

• Hot Topic: Snoop Dogg is in the hot seat after flippant comments about 'two Moms' in a Disney film...TS Madison has some words for Snoop...

• Hot Topic: Is Gloria Gaynor a MAGA supporter ahead of her Kennedy Center Honors award?

• Hot Topic: Virginia Gay Bar Owners, Freddie Lutz and Johnny Cervantes tie the knot at World Pride on a float and we are here for it!

• Hot Topic: The drama amid the divorce between David Geffen and Donovan Michael's continues over a 590 million dollar yacht...

• Hot Topic: Crumbl Co-CEO is outed by a reality star...were we surprised? Is 'outing' ever a good thing??

• Thirst Trap: Out of 13 NSFW pictures, who took the hottest pic of the week?

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LINKS:

Nelly Furtado headlines Manchester Pride and claps back at the fat shaming haters! https://www.queerty.com/nelly-furtado-wont-let-body-shamers-ruin-her-good-time-at-manchester-pride-20250826/

TS Madison claps back at Snoop Dogg over comments about how two women can have a baby..

See the gay wedding couple and bar owners from Virginia get married on World Pride on a float! https://www.advocate.com/news/gay-bar-owner-worldpride-wedding

Which of these 13 NSFW performers took the best picture of the week? https://str8upgayporn.com/thirst-trap-recap-gay-porn-keegan-whick-chris-wade-josh-moore-jeffrey-vice-roxas-caelum/

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